This is how you tell a man


I'm a small person - physically.

I'm not very tall.

And in crowds, I'm easily shoved. Because other people are VERY important and they have to be places.

Me and my smallness can fuck right off in this cases.

Except, I'm kind of over it.

A man pushed me the other day in London Bridge. I told him not to.

I happened to be voice noting a friend at the time - so I happened to record it.

Which happens to be here - so you can listen to it.

I don't know if you need to hear this today but...

NO ONE gets to push you...
Interrupt you...
Disregard you...
Undermine you...
Disrespect you...
See through you...

NO ONE

You were made to take up space.

You were made to burn bright.

You were made experience this world without apology.

The world may try to make you smaller. More palatable. More convenient.

Say NO.

The world doesn't get to decide how you ARE in the world.

You are worthy.

You get to be you.

You get to be the whole of you.

You get to tell everyone not to push you.

We may not have met, or exchanged words, but I have been pushed. And I see you.

Ash.

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